Would you have been a classy lady in 1860?

Florence Hartley’s 1860 guide to etiquette helped women with their social graces, and it also helps us test how classy you would have been. Though the manual isn’t quite Victorian (Hartley was an American), it’s heavily influenced by Victorian ideals. Her book has a hefty title—The Ladies’ Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness: A Complete Hand Book for the Use of the Lady in Polite Society—and a lot of rules.

To be clear, Hartley’s not a schoolmarm about it—her first rule of etiquette is the golden rule, and she believes true politeness is “the language of a good heart.” But there are still a few tricks you should know. Would you have been classy in 1860? Find out.

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Did you pass? Which rule surprises you?